Thomas "TJ" Balthazor's Obituary
TJ was born in Melbourne, Victoria, Australia on March 27, 1977. His parents, Ronald and Patricia, brought him to California when he was 16 months old. As a child he lived in Northridge, Redlands, and San Bernardino, California and as an adult lived in Oregon and California. He loved to skateboard, ride motorcycles and snowboard. He married Sasha Sparrow and they had 3 wonderful sons: Gabriel, Elijah, and Jude. He was an auto mechanic for many years.
TJ died on December 13, 2025, in San Bernardino. He had been in failing health for quite some time. He is survived by his ex-wife, 3 sons, his father, Ronald and step-mother Glenda in South Dakota, his mother, Patricia in San Bernardino, his two brothers: Jeremy in California, and Andrew in Florida. and his 3 uncles, Oliver North, Jack North, and Timothy North and aunts, cousins, nieces, and nephews.
Funeral services will be held at Our Lady of the Assumption Church in San Bernardino on Friday January 30th at 11 AM.
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