To Nick's family and loved ones: Nick was my classmate in school, and while we weren't close, he was alway there, just always there, just always being a really nice guy. Sounds like he continued to be a super nice guy and was successful and made a good life for himself. I am happy for him about that. As a "young" widow whose husband also died suddenly and unexpectedly 3 years ago, I empathize with those who loved and were close to Nick and especially to his immediate family, please know that you are supported by the universe and God. We can ask the questions a thousand times over, but sometimes we just have to have faith, and love someone enough to let them go. As my minister said to me, "he graduated". I know how much it hurts, and my prayers are with you. I found, and continue to find comfort in knowing that someone who makes their transition has comfort in knowing that they have unconditional love, that they are loved enough to let them go, and that this makes them feel safe in making their transition and moving on.
My greatest regards,
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