Uncle Fred and I had many friends and associates in common through banking. We enjoyed sharing stories. One of his employees from Bank of California became my manager. He knew everything about the guy. Uncle Fred introduced the president of my bank to the Italian way of making a deal when we bought Fontana National Bank. I tried to lay low for that one, haha. He could spin anything Italian! He had the sarcastic tough Italian guy attitude that made us laugh together.
In addition to banking, we both loved music. Uncle Fred came through for many of us by bringing his band to special events. He played the drums with a calm, cool attitude and always has us dancing. I enjoyed watching him play at the Italian American Club in Fontana.
Uncle Fred’s Catholic faith was important to him. One Sunday about three years ago, I brought Mom to Mass and my uncle was there with Rick. Brother and sister held hands, worshipped, and prayed together. It was so beautiful!
I’ve missed him for the last couple of years. His body and mind were tired after living a life as leader of the Scarsella Family, local banker, friend to many, father, and husband. He received the sacrament of Anointing of the Sick a week prior to passing. Uncle Fred is in heaven, where he wanted to go.
My love to all who loved him.
Mary