As You Think Bill Pardue    As You Think “As a man thinketh, so is he.” When we think good thoughts, good things happen to us. I believe we should think with a positive mental attitude, so we will overcome what has happened to us, such as the loss of a loved one; a life altering experience. We tend to grieve so much that it fogs the very existence of our wellbeing. We just exist until we realize that our loved one would not want this to happen. They would want us to get on with our lives, although we will always have the memories of the time we were together. I also believe we must live for today. When I first joined the support group, I did not know what to expect. The fear of the unknown was with me. With everybody in the same boat, we started to come out of our shells of grief and started to open up. We began to support one another. As time goes by, we laugh again and make friendships with the people that have been grieving with us. This group at Bobbitt Memorial Chapel has done wonders for my family and me. Everything is done on a positive note. I thank this group for helping me to move along the grieving process. It’s still going on and will be for some time to come. Bill Pardue is a member of our Tuesday night (6:00 p.m.) support group.